Asking For Help

Living as a foreigner in Malawi, it becomes commonplace for people of all ages to come up to you and ask you for money almost everyday. People here believe that all white foreigners have lots of money (except for Peace Corps volunteers). It is just part of life here, and it is easy to become callused/suspicious of the many people who ask after living here long enough. It is just the way it is, and like it or not, I believe that giving someone that money will not help them in the long run, but only teach them that begging works and they should always ask foreigners for money. Having said that, however, there are times when you come across someone in need that you know deserves it and will use it to better themselves, their family's way of life, and hopefully all those around them. The following letter is a request for help from my closest friend in the village, Paulos. Paulos very often has me over to his home where he and his wife feed me and help me with the many things I lack the skills/know how/communication ability to accomplish here in Malawi. He approached me yesterday to ask if there was anyone I know who might be able to help him with his school fees so he can finish secondary school (high school). Paulos has been an incredible friend to me, and is someone who I trust completely. I told him that I would post his request on my blog to see if anyone back home would like to give what I cannot, money. Here is what he wrote:

My name is Paulos Anderson Kayange, Malawian citizen aged 27 male by sex and I am married. I live at Chisansu village 8km south from Chitipa district northen region of the country, Malawi.

I am kindly asking for help in terms of funds so that I can use it as school fees to continue my last two secondary classes. I did the other first two unfortunately, my Father who was paying me past away in August 2007. I am now holding a family. My wife who is now pregnant for the first time, my Mum who is aging 60 and my two young brothers who are doing their free primary education.

My aim is to return to school if I can be finacially assisted and to be educated so as to stand a chance of getting employed inorder to support the entire family living in beyond poverty and contribute to the development of the village and the nation as a whole.

Truely yours,
Paulos


Paulos told me that it would take about 30,000 Malawian kwacha (about $200 USD) for him to pay the school fees for his remaining two years of education. It tore my heart out to tell him I didn't have the money, but I am very happy that I can at least make his plight known to others. The next school term starts in September so I am hoping to be able to find a way to make this happen for him. I have no problems vouching for this man's sincerity, honesty, and hard work. He will do what he says he will do if someone will give him a chance. If you are interested in helping Paulos, please contact me via email at philrich66@gmail.com The above picture is Paulos and his wife, Mable at their home in my village.
Thanks for listening!!